Tuesday, January 4, 2011

women, the stronger gender...

My dear friend "T" said those words to me today....and I definitely agree. We are stronger and as "T" said, " We do what we gotta do to protect our own".
Words from a wise woman, who has been through alot of life's rollercoaster rides the past few years +.
I don't really care if people don't like this post and don't agree with me. It is my opinion and I'm never gonna not believe it.
"T" and I are both single mothers, going through tough divorces, hard times, emotional times, times where we don't believe in ourselves or in others, times where we cry, times, where we scream, times when we wanna just give up and go into hiding.
But we don't!!!
We can't!!!
Because if we give up on ourselves, we give up on our children, we let them down, so we keep going, we keep trying to smile and soldier on, for them, because they are our lives, our world, our universe.
I've started a 2nd job, I'm into my 2nd day only and already it is testing me, testing my will, testing my patience, forcing me to smile when I really wanna run crying and screaming. But I gotta push myself, because I need the money, to make ends meet, for my son and I.
Every minute, I say in my mind " I'm doing this for him, I'm doing this for us".
To all the single mothers and single fathers out there, we soldier on, for our kids, because if it wasn't for them, I know that most of us would just give up.

love.love.love

M.R x

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